There are seasons in life when God’s plan feels hidden, like a quiet whisper we cannot fully understand. Yet as we look back, we often realize that even in the most fragile and uncertain moments, God was already moving. He was already shaping our path, our heart, and even our identity. My story reminds me that beginnings do not determine destiny. Even when a life is unplanned by people, it is never unplanned by God. The emptiness, the rejection, the silent fears I carried growing up were not ran

The biggest lie in self-help is this: You don’t “find” yourself. People spend their whole lives searching, as if who they are is buried somewhere far away. But you’re not hidden treasure... You’re not waiting under a rock to be discovered. You don’t find yourself. You invent yourself. That’s why the Torah says: לא בשמים היא It’s not in Heaven. Not distant. It’s right here; in your mouth, your heart, your action. Life isn’t about discovering who you are. It’s about tearing away the false picture,